Thursday, 15 March 2012

生日


人越大,生日似乎越不重要。小時候總是很期待生日的到來,大了之後開始有點抗拒這個特別的日子。也許是心魔作祟,不想承認自己「又」大一歲吧﹗

生日前一星期,媽已經問我想到哪裡慶祝,但我總是提不起勁,甚至覺得沒有甚麼必要。當然,有人問起會感到窩心,不過我在意的不在於慶祝生日的地點和形式,而是和我慶祝的人。所以如果有朋友問我要到哪裡吃飯慶祝,我多半都會說沒有所謂,希望不會冒犯了他們。

自從社交網絡變得普及之後,大家都會在朋友生日當天留言祝賀。就這個現象,我大概歸納出幾點: 

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1.      最要好最知心的朋友,通常都不會在社交網絡留言。有時我都有這個心態,對好朋友的關心或祝賀,無須「公諸於世」,朋友之間私底下問候就好。
2.      有些相熟的朋友在社交網絡留言,雖然有點「例行公事」,但你仍會因為他們的祝福而心存感激。
3.      有些泛泛之交/很久沒有聯絡的朋友,你沒有想過他們會記得這個日子,但多得透過社交網絡的提醒功能,他們仍願意花丁點時間在留言版送上祝福,給你帶來驚喜。
4.      有些朋友準是忘記了,沒有留下片言隻字,但你會乾著急。(這些人大概在你心目中佔有一定的位置,可惜這種「關係」並不是相對的。)
5.      有些朋友雖然沒有祝福問候,但你不會生氣,也不會因此影響你們之間的友誼。(這些人大概是認識了很久但又不常見面/聯絡。你應該已很清楚他們的為人,以致你不會因這次「疏忽」而怪責他們。)
6.      有些「朋友」雖然沒有祝福問候,但你也不覺得有甚麼大不了。(該說明了這些人在你心目中的地位(如有))

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自從2011年起,我的生日便註定變得不一樣。珍惜所有,平安是福!

Saturday, 3 March 2012

Nostalgia

Somewhere along the Great Ocean Road, South Australia, Jan 2006


My first and only helicopter ride, The Twelve Apostles, Australia, Jan 2006

Thursday, 23 February 2012

Politicians - East meets West

Hong Kong’s leading officials don’t talk. They read aloud.

I really really dislike the fact that they fail to talk properly without referring to their iPad or a slip of paper. I acknowledge that sometimes one needs to quote statistics, or to get across a complex idea and that’s when you need something to help you. But why would you need to read from a script, for instance, while delivering an apology or merely telling people something that you have done? It’s absurd.

Take the Budget Speech earlier this month as an example. Why would any Legco member want to sit there and listen to the monotone of the Financial Secretary? He stood there like a statue with his eyes focusing on his reading stand. His delivery was lifeless and emotionless. Honestly, I don’t blame those who couldn’t resist and doze off. What’s the point anyway - when everyone was given a copy of the “speech” at the beginning of the meeting, one might as well read it at their own leisure.

On the other side of the world, President Obama was giving the State of the Union address. From what I can tell, he did not read from a script. There could be a teleprompter, but I can’t tell. It didn’t show anyway. He was poised. He kept looking around while addressing the congressmen. He controlled and varied the pace of his delivery. He enhanced his speech with appropriate gestures. Overall, he was natural and confident. It was such a joy just to listen to him.


I often wonder how politicians in the West can be so charming and charismatic, whereas the ones in Hong Kong, most of them anyway, are just drop-dead dull. Is this something to do with our upbringing – that people in the West are encouraged to speak up while Orientals are taught to be more reserved?

Somehow, you really cannot help but ask why there’s no Winston Churchill, or Martin Luther King, or Barack Obama, to name just a few, in our part of the globe. 

Sad but true.

Saturday, 18 February 2012

Friday, 17 February 2012

Concert YY

嗯,是時候寫一寫YY。

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在機緣巧合/誤打誤撞的情況下,終於去了2月14日作品展的尾場。完show後,我腦海中只浮起「夢幻」兩個字。


 
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當晚的話題應有盡有:出席的流行歌手在香港樂壇都算是數一數二的(還有一些久未露面的);唱的歌又真的是耳熟能詳(響起前奏已知道是甚麼歌的那種);場面感人演繹真摯(甚麼泯恩仇之類);激情惹火的一刻(!!!)……250元得到的滿足實在難以一一細說。如果可以再來一次,一定要買更貴的飛坐得更前!!

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我得承認,之前一直沒有太留意Wyman,知道這個人,知道他填詞,但實在沒有太刻意打聽他的作品。雖然,近年聽歌開始越來越留意歌詞,但即使遇到好的詞,也不會特意去探究填詞人是誰。直至當晚才赫然發現,原來我是聽Wyman的歌大的!小玩意再見露絲瑪莉痛愛漩渦奇洛李維斯回信好心分手葡萄成熟時木紋可惜我是水瓶座最佳損友囍帖街陀飛輪等等等等……作品展中響起的每一首經典,每一首都表達著不同的心路歷程和意境,每一首都是那麼到肉窩心,每一首都帶我回到小學中學大學的自己。

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音樂的感染力真奇妙! Thank you, Wyman!


Saturday, 11 February 2012

Photography

(I am not an expert in photography.)

I believe one does not need to have a professional camera and advanced digital software to take/produce good photos.

Two observant eyes, imagination and your heart are all that you need.

Vatican Museum, Oct 2011

Monday, 6 February 2012

Race

You have to wonder why Rio kept being booed by Chelsea fans throughout the game. Last time I checked, it was his brother who might have been racially abused by JT?

What's wrong with these people? Are they for or against racial discrimination?